Little did I know when I started this blog that the title would expand, requiring me to ask this question of so many new situations in my life....

Friday, September 30, 2005

We need us a Yankee down here......

That's the comment I heard this morning during a discussion about who was going to oversee all that money that's coming our way to rebuild and do all the other things that need to be done. I, like many others, have nightmares about that money. The names of its suggested 'overseeers' that I've heard tossed around don't cut the mustard..if you know what I mean. If the wrong people get their greedy, grimy hands on any of that money it will be a travesty.

So, back to that discussion about who should oversee the money--no one could think of a single person deemed trustworthy. That's when someone made a comment not often heard in these parts--we need us a Yankee down here. ....Any suggestions?



Louisiana death count: 929 dead as of tonight

Thursday, September 29, 2005

If you feel any emotion long enough, you become worn out......

I heard that on the radio today. I like that. It still feels odd/wrong to start trying to get back to normal when there's so much 'un-normal' around, yet it doesn't feel right to just feel 'bad' all the time. Pity parties get us no where.

At the dentist today the first question everyone asked was, "How was the traffic on your way here?" Then..very quickly..everyone adds, "Well, if traffic's the worse thing we have to worry about, we're blessed." It's that way wherever you go--people ask things like, Is your garbage being picked up? Have you noticed more police cars patrolling your neighborhood? Did you know such-and-such a store if only accepting cash now? Have you noticed that WalMart is keeping their liquor up front at one checkout? When do you think stores will have full shelves again? Then..quickly..we all add, "Well, if (fill in the problem) is all we have to complain about, we're blessed. And, that's true. But..it's also true that life, in many additional ways, is a pain in the butt now-a-dazes. And I feel bad about feeling that way.

In the dentist office today, there were three of us waiting our turn and we started talking. Asking each other..any trouble getting here? Each of us told our story and then said the obligatory, "Well, if that's all we have to worry about......"

One lady got a far-away look and told us that there were members of her family in Bogalosa that she still hasn't heard from. (Rita's doing, not Katrina's.) Nobody said it out loud this time, but I think we all silently thought it, "Well, if all we have to worry about is how long it's going to take us to get back home, we are truly blessed."

Tuesday, September 27, 2005

Well, I guess it's official now......

My state, Louisiana, is a dysfunctional state. No duh!

That statement (minus the 'duh' part) was made by former FEMA head, Mike Brown. All that comes to mind is: ....Takes one to know one. ....Like attracts like.

Brown was testifying before a congressional committee ( a bunch of Republicans and one Democrat who's from New Orleans and is dragging around quite a story of his own). Even that group didn't buy it....

On another 'up' ;/ note, my husband still hasn't made contact with his work. Who knows if he's still got a job and if so when he'll start working again?

885 is the official death count in LA as of today.



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To prove I can be an optimist, here's another take on this post:

Today Mike Brown did one good thing. He spoke--out loud--the truth about LA state and local governments. Everyone knew. No one knew what to do about it so we laughed. It became an uncomfortable joke--almost a source of pride among some. Now we can't laugh anymore. Eight hundred and eighty-five lives have been lost so far. It's not funny.

There is so much talk about how things MUST change in the reshaping of the New Orleans that will result at the end of all this. There is so much hope, insistence, that the new city MUST be better....for everyone. This can't happen if the same good ole boys stay in power. The good ole boys have been in power for decades and can be judged and disposed of (with votes) quickly, I think.

Maybe, just maybe, the law of momentum will take effect. Maybe if we can get 'something' good started it will take on a life of its own and, down the road, result in something good enough, clean enough, positive enough, honest enough to be a legacy fitting for those far away to come home to. Maybe, just maybe....

Saturday, September 24, 2005

Surviving Rita......

Rita blew through leaving chaos and sadness in her wake. I didn't think there was room for any more sadness in this state, but....

So now that the southeastern part of our state was hit last month (NOLA--our largest city/tourism/seafood industry/$$$), and the southwestern part this month (casinos) there's not much left. Which begs the question: What happens to a failed state? Will they turn us into a 'territory?'

Thursday, September 22, 2005

What do Social Security Numbers and Indelible Ink Have in Common......

With hurricane Rita possibly bearing down on us, our governor's advice to all in Acadiana who chose to stay and not evacuate was: "Write your social security number on your arm with indelible ink. You're as good as dead." Ummmm....I think I'd pack up and go after hearing that one....

Earlier today my son was reading me some statistics from a course he's taking this semester. I'd heard some of them before--statistics that show how very blessed we in America are (and possibly..depending on your belief system..how selfish and out of touch we are). These statistics showed that we Americans are a small fraction of the world's population yet we (not me--but a few of us..a VERY few of us) hold 50% of the world's wealth. Unbelievable! ....But maybe not. The city I'm living in is becoming (statistically speaking) more and more unlike America and like the *rest* of the world. We have outbreaks of dysentery (sp?) in one of the shelters. What's next? Oh, yes, they say it could be cholera.

J pulled the 5th wheel home from Beaumont today. The trip usually takes 3 1/2 hours--today it took him over 7 hours. Not really surprising, just tiring. Many of the people who evacuated west after Katrina are now evacuating back east. Pitiful. Yet....how is it so different from what's *normal* in the vast majority of the rest of the world?

J wants to go get batteries for the lantern tonight. (Hysterical laughter here!) He so doesn't get it. He's never been here when a storm's hit. He's been 'off working.' ....I know that's important; I'm just saying that he's never had to 'prepare for the storm' before. I'm going to go with him. Who knows. We might just find some batteries....and eggs.

Now, pardon me while I go cry into my Southern Comfort....

Wednesday, September 21, 2005

The Bitches of Summer '05......

Katrina has a rival in the gulf battling for the title of 'top bitch--summer 2005.' I so hope Katrina keeps her title, and Rita becomes nothing more than a 'wanna be.' Which once again makes me wonder why we in hurricane country speak of storms almost as if they were/are family members. Like when we say....Andrew's comin'. And then when someone says, "When Georges came through here.....," there's no doubt 'what' (not who) they are talking about.

And speaking of Geroges--what was with that name choice? The only people I heard who could pronounce his name correctly were on the Weather Channel. You should have heard how that name (which I'm sure sounds lovely in French) was butchered.

BTW, hurricanes that are unusually deadly or costly have their names retired. No need to worry about an unwanted visit from Katrina again.

So, prayers, good thoughts, positive energy....all those have been and are being sent to the TX coast.

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

Good Bye to the Big Apple......

While thinking about the last three days of our trip, I realized that we were sort of in a daze--knowing the best (that our kids were fine) and the worst (that many, many others weren't). Looking back, I think we were going through the motions of finishing the trip because only then could we GET BACK HOME. So I'm just going to combine the last three days--because that's how they felt to us....one big blur. Which means.. we're going to have to go back up there and do it right! :)

Tuedsay and Wednesday: We spent these two days in the Midtown area--again, with mucho walking. The Empire State Building, Chrysler Building, Rockefeller Center, Lincoln Center, Radio City Music Hall, Grand Central Station..all the usual stuff. My favorites were 1.) the main reading room of the NYC library--beautiful ceilings & of course..the lions, and 2.) Saint Patrick's Cathedral. Magnificent! I wanted to light a candle in remembrance of all who died and were dying in NOLA but (not being Catholic) was fearful of doing something wrong and insulting, so I just said a silent prayer. (We were out and about all day and well into the night so the only images I saw were on tv late at night. I wasn't bombarded with the awful images coming out of NOLA so I hadn't really felt the full impact. I now understand the outrage expressed by those we met during that time. They were more in touch than we were. I guess we were tying not to face it so we could finish our plans and get home. I also better understand the rage my sons expessed when I talked to them. My family looks quite different than many you saw on roof tops in NOLA, yet my sons would tell me in horror that *our* people are dying a few minutes down the road. I heard that expressed many times my first week back--expressed by black/white/yellow/poor/wealthy/you name it. And I heard myself saying it in disbelief and outrage.) Whew! Excusez-moi.

After that brief intermission, back to the surreal trip reporting....

Thursday, our last day: After our daily bagels and coffee--so many good bagel shops with so many good bagels, we packed up and had the hotel hold our bags until the car service was due to pick us up for an 8:30 pm flight out of LGA. At the time I booked our flights, it seemed like a good idea to book a late return flight so we'd have more time to do more stuff, but that day how I wished we'd had one of those 5:30 am flights out. We just wanted to get home--we didn't know how because so many roads were closed but we knew we'd find a way. As it turned out, so many things that were supposed to be true (like closed interstates) weren't. I guess everyone was pretty much overwhelmed.

Thurday we headed back downtown to shop and eat. Actually, we did very little shopping and eating the whole trip. I had lots of both planned but we just didn't feel up to it. We tried, but not much sparked our interest, or seemed worthwhile. I shouldn't say we didn't eat because we did. :/ We just found ourselves grabbing something from the carts along the streets or going in any place that looked interesting when we were hungry. I had a 3" stack of restaurant menus I'd printed out, but we didn't try a one of them. Oh, well, always next time, right?

Sheesh! I can't seem to finish this report. So....Thursday we went by Columbia University, looked for Jim a hat in the Garment District, and went back to Chinatown and shopped/looked. We found a fun place named Pearl River. And we had a nice sit down 'last day' lunch in Little Italy. Great food. Great prices. Great place to people watch. I longed for more of that sauce for days.

Then, finally, finally, finally, it was time to go home.

On the flight home we noticed that the guy across the aisle had on a crimson hat with that distinctive white script *A*--can you say "Roll Tide?" (As in the University of Alabama football "Roll Tide!") Well, of course Jim leaned over and said, "Roll Tide!" The guy responded likewise. That led to a conversation on BAMA football that lasted half way to B'ham. As it turned out, the guy is a reporter with the New York Times and he was on his way to the coast, not only to 'report' but he was also going to rent a truck, find some gas cans, fill them up, and get supplies down to reporters already there. He told us that his realitives in MS told him people were going to gas stations in pairs--one person to fill the car and pay, and one person to stay in the car to prevent carjacking. We told him that our sons said while buying gas twice daily to keep the generator going they noticed many people with guns in their belts. Bad people were on the move, and I have no doubt that a 'displaced' criminal element has embedded itself in Baton Rouge.

So, we landed, told the NYTimes dude to take care, and after "Roll Tide-ing" each other we headed to the house in AL where the girls were waiting. We stayed up till the wee hours listening to them unload. Then, the next day, started the long trip home.

Jeeze! How could I forget to mention: 1.) The Met--Wonderful, magnificent, spectacular.... Before you go it will save time if you go online and research alllllllllll the exhibits so you can prioritize. Make your list or 'must-sees.' There is NO way to do it all in a day.

2.) "All Shook Up" was just plain fun.

3.) "The Producers" was fun but a level above "ASUp." We loved it.

....If I remember anything else that I've forgotten, I'll be back.

Tuesday, September 13, 2005

Day Two: Negotiating NYC Subways..aka..Karen Goes to Harlem..

Monday's weather was forecast to be the only clear day of our stay, so we planned it to be our 'walking' day. Little did we know then that EVERY day would be a walking day, and that we would see no rain our entire time up there. So, after coffee and bagels we were off to master the subway and find our way downtown to the Staten Island Ferry. I had no idea we would use the subway as much as we did so I insisted that we only buy a Pay-Per-Ride MetroCard and load it with $10.00 Well, let me tell you, we used that up in no time. So we ended up buying a 7-Day-Unlimited-Ride MetroCard for $24.00 each.

MetroCard in hand we caught the 1 (red) subway/train. I was somewhat concerned about getting the 'swipe' motion correct, but managed quite well, thank you. Once downtown we had no trouble finding the Staten Island Ferry--which is a free commuter ferry offering good views of the Statue of Liberty. Did you know that viewed from behind, the statue is actually striding forward? After getting off the ferry, we walked, and walked, and walked, and walked. We walked by Battery Park, Century 21 (shopping), the former World Trade Center site, Trinity Church, City Hall, and probably other places I'm not remembering. We took the subway to Brooklyn and walked along the Brooklyn Heights and then walked over the Brooklyn Bridge back to Manhattan. We walked.

The only activity I had scheduled for Monday was the Tenement Museum tour. The Tenement Museum is on the Lower East Side. That tour was one of my favorite things on the trip. Our guide was great--he was the one who told us where to get the bialys BTW. If you're interested, the museum has an online site. After the museum (and bialys), we walked through part of Chinatown and had dim sum.

After Chinatown we decided to head back to the hotel, clean up and try and catch some music at Lincoln Center (Dizzy's Coca Cola). That's when Jim made his fateful remark about us doing so well with the subway. I just knew the fates would make us pay for that remark--and they did. We hopped on a subway hoping to go back to the UWS, and the next thing I knew we were walking through Harlem. Now I wouldn't mind going to a soul food restaurant, or a jazz club in Harlem IF I knew where I was going and had a cab drop me off and pick me up. One of my favorite stories is from "The Autobiography of Malcolm X," it involves sweet potatoes and NYC. But we were ridiculously lost.

We walked up out of the subway and the first thing I noticed were lots of policemen clustered around, and that the two of us stood out even more than normal. Did we head back down the stairs and try and catch a train going back into Manhattan? No. Why? I have no earthly idea. But Jim started walking and I followed....all the while thinking. Thinking that we shouldn't leave the area where the police were. Thinking those tall buildings all around us looked familiar--can you say 'projects?' When I mentioned it to Jim, he said to walk with a purpose. What the hell?!?! And then....and then....and then....he actually pulled the subway map out. Can you say 'tourist-target?' Jim actually asked someone who was sitting on a bench for directions. And the dude politely gave us directions.

I don't know if NYC's projects are different from those where I'm from, but obviously no harm came to us and maybe I should be embarrassed to admit I was frightened. BTW, on our drive back to the airport, our driver told us that Clinton's office is in Harlem. Who knew?

Anyway, by the time we finally got headed in the right direction, we were exhausted, so we ate at a Mexican restaurant somewhere along Columbus or Amsterdam Avenues and then just walked some more. Actually by then we were looking for me some flip-flops because my feet were killing me. If I had known everyone in NYC was wearing flip-flops I would have worn mine up there. It would have saved me lots of pain. Then we went back to the hotel to try and contact the kids and see what was left standing in our part of the world. We now knew where Katrina had decided to come in.

I'm not sure how to fit in the Katrina happenings with the trip happenings. I think writing this is actually therapy for me.

Anyway, on Monday I didn't get in touch with the kids until we were waiting for the ferry. My daughter and her roommates were in a closet playing Yahtzee. Trees had already fallen on their house and garage. The roof of the garage had fallen in on top of their cars. Trees were down blocking their driveway. That was all they knew from peeks taken during lulls in the wind and rain. I asked if they had mattresses and sofa cushions to put on top of them--they did. They were waiting on the eye of the storm to pass over and then the bad part. It wasn't going to be over for hours.

I called Baton Rouge and the boys said the roof of a shed was off and several sections of fence were down. But they thought the worse for them was close to being over. Odd now that they had already heard a rumor that a levee had broken in New Orleans. My sons in La. and my daughter in MS both lost power at 7:30 am Monday. Sounds as if a power grid was shut down.

By early afternoon Monday it was becoming difficult to get a call through to the kids. Later in the day I managed to get back in touch with the boys. They were thinking the worst was over for them and they were planning on starting the generator when the winds died down. Something I haven't heard talked about much is all the people who died from carbon monoxide poisioning. At least a couple of families died and many other individuals also. People were setting up generators inside their houses or outside, too close to an open window. So sad.

The girls were still waiting for the worse to be over.

Day One: The 'Big Apple"

OK, I'm going to be one of those people who torture others with their vacation pictures. Only this will be vacation --day by day.

Day one, Sunday: After many hours spent online planning this trip, we're finally ready to head up to the 'Big
Apple.' (Did you know that jockeys in New Orleans gave New York the Big Apple nickname? I read it on a NYC visitors site, so it must be true.) I had booked our flights out of Birmingham because more choices were offered. As it turned out, it was a blessing because the New Orleans airport closed Saturday night. If we HAD flown out of New Orleans, I was planning on spending Saturday night down there so it would be easier to make an early Sunday morning flight out-- and to have a good meal and maybe catch some good music. I don't even want to think about what might have happened if that had occurred.

So we leave as Katrina heads in. Who would have thought that the city we were leaving (Baton Rouge) would be forever changed when we returned just a few days later--not to mention the lives of so very many people? I swear that before Katrina hit Florida our weather man said that she wasn't expected to be much of a threat....and our weather men are usually quite good on things like this. I was so surprised at the amount of damage Katrina did to Florida--and I started paying attention.

(Eerie moment here.) About a month before we were scheduled to leave I started getting anxious. Not scared, just anxious. I felt that 'something' was going to happen to keep us from going. I knew I could cancel the room, but not the plane tickets, the two shows I already had tickets for, or another tour I had booked. To think I was worried about money! This anxiety kept increasing. I had to stop myself from imagining all sorts of things that could happen....but never for one moment did I imagine the storm.

I was so relieved mid-week before we left. Nothing had happened. I thought we were home free. And then the warnings started coming. No weather patterns were going to develop to push the storm away. And it was so hot, even for the dog-days of August in south Louisiana, it was so hot. People were talking about the 'heat' coming to town like it was an unwelcome relative. All this heat was just feeding Katrina, and she was sucking it up. You never can tell about hurricanes, but all along it looked as if Baton Rouge would be getting the west side of the storm which was the best we cold hope for. I was insisting my boys go to Hattiesburg, MS and stay with their sister, until she told me what was being predicted for them. Such a huge storm! As it turned out, Hattiesburg was hit harder than Baton Rouge. Katrina was a Cat 2 when the eye passed over Hattiesburg. Such a huge storm.

So, making myself believe (after much prayer) that the boys were not in line of a direct hit, and not being able to believe that Hattiesburg (90 miles inland from the coast) could actually be hit by a Cat 2 hurricane, we were off. As we headed east to B'ham Saturday night, everyone else was headed west to (hopefully) safety. The radio was telling people not to go east because MS and AL were under the gun. We had to pass right by Hattiesburg and police were limiting access to the city by closing off interstate exits. They wanted people to head farther north. We stopped for a bite to eat in Meridian, MS and the city was full of people from the New Orleans area. One family with 3 small children and (I guess) three grandparents came in and sat at a table next to us. As the mom took the children to the restroom, the dad gave a big sigh and said, "We made it." As we asked him if he was from La. we noticed tears running down his cheeks. People were scared. I wonder if they have a home to go back to. We had an easy drive into B'ham. We did notice many moving trucks on the other side of I-59. I guess people were going to try and move out as much as they could from their homes and/or businesses.

After reading all this you may already be tired. By the time we got to B'ham around midnight I was emotionally exhausted. Amanda and her roommates had come in to see us off. They were all going to the Myrtles (a supposedly haunted plantation) Saturday night and then head home to Hattiesburg. Looking back, I can't believe we actually left. What happened was just unimaginable at the time. I had prayed and had a peace regarding my children. I wish now that I had prayed more for all the others. I feel selfish.

Anyway, we did make it to B'ham and tried to get a few hours sleep--after going to WalMart for an alarm clock. We had an 8:25 am flight. Since neither of us could sleep well, we got up and headed to the airport early. It turned out to be a good thing because Jim couldn't find the airport. It was de ja vu because on our first date he couldn't find the airport. His excuse then was that he had just returned from being overseas in the Air Force. ....I forget what it was this time. I was no help because I only remember my way around B'ham if I'm coming form the side of town I grew up in, and we weren't coming from that side of town. We finally found the airport and were grateful that we had left early and that the flight had been delayed. As we waited many people around us were on their cells trying to make plans for their animals or contingency plans in case they were delayed coming back. The B'ham area had found out they were going to be impacted by the storm. And by the end of the week Katrina was going to be in the NY area. She was one huge mama.

We finally got on the plane and realized it was the first time we had flown together. As usual, I opened the paper and pretended to read it as we took off. Jim looked out the window. When I decided I could stop worrying about the plane making it off the ground, I decided to start worrying about the hotel room. I had booked the room online, but had called twice to make sure they knew we were coming. ....They assured me they knew we were coming and that we would indeed have a room waiting. :/ I started telling (preparing?) Jim for what might happen. I asked him if he realized that most NYC rooms were teeny tiny and for good reason--there is no space up there. I asked him if he realized how many people came to NYC each day/month/year, meaning the hotel room might look quite USED. I asked him if knew that NYers had a reputation for being rude--especially servers at restaurants (according to Fodors). I asked him if...
About this time he told me to just shut up.

A little over 2 hours later we landed at LaGuardia. I had read that many planes overshoot LGA's landing strips because the landing strips are so short and not intended for large jets. We were in a smallish plane and did just fine. When I told Jim about the overshooting, he told me I had over- done the research. We got our bags and made our way to the taxi line. As we were standing on line, the driver of a gypsy cab came up to us and offered to take us into the city for a reduced price. He wanted us to share his car with another couple. My research came in handy this time because, unless you know what you're doing (which we did NOT), you only want to take a yellow cab. There have been stories of tourist taking gypsy cabs for what they think is a reduced fare, and upon arriving at their destination, the driver demands a much higher price. Unfortunately the driver will keep your bags in the trunk until you pay what he demands. So we stood on line for a cab.

My daughter had told me that the only time she was scared in NYC was whenever she was in a taxi. I thought I was prepared. But....where Amanda said the cabs they had ridden in were new, clean, and even had machines for credit/debit cards, our cab was none of these. It was old, dirty, smelly, and driven by a man with a turban. I found out by reading all the little cards he had posted in the cab that he was a Sikh (sp?). The cards spelled out his philosophy of life and it was cool, but still sort of a shock to a girl form south Louisiana. He spoke virtually no English, yet he was mumbling or singing or chanting the whole time. I noticed Jim was unusually quiet. He told me later that he was stunned that the Shikh could go over 70 mph on crowded interstates. I told Jim that I wasn't able to see much over the man's turban (it was wound way up there), and Jim told me to count my blessings. I admit I almost cried when we first got in the cab. I didn't know what I had gotten us into. My NYC experience began in that cab. And....after getting out, I wondered if I should get some kind of immunization.

Well, we made it to the hotel. It was too early for check-in, but they held our bags. We stayed at the Lucerne on the Upper West Side. The Upper West Side is a neighborhood--sort of. There are hotels, lots and lots of restaurant and stores, and brownstones. We were two blocks from Central Park, and one block from the subway. The hotel looked fine (even tho we hadn't seen our room), and they did indeed have us a room waiting, so I started feeling better. We left our bags and headed for Central Park. If you've never been to Central Park it's amazing. It's huge. It's quiet. You're walking in a park yet you can see skyscrapers lining the skyline in the distance. We wandered around finding places we had heard about and wanted to see. I knew 'Shakespeare in the Park' was happening that night, and had put that on the itenerary, but once I learned that people usually start lining up at 8 am for the box office to open at 2 pm, I had given up hope on getting tickets. The tickets are free so the demand is high. Well, we just happened to pass Delacorte Theater where the box office is and I walked up and asked if there were any tickets left. A handful were left, so we got two.

By then it was time to check-in so we walked back to the hotel. Our room was fine. I had booked a Junior Suite for the price of a regular room so we actually had a sitting room, a bedroom, and a bath. The building was built in 1902 and the facade has been declared a historical landmark and can't be touched, but the inside has been redecorated--especially the bathrooms which have lots of marble. We were on the 11th floor but didn't have much of a view....basically our windows looked right into the windows of the next building. But....if you leaned out the bedroom windows just right (yes, the windows opened!) you could see the Hudson or East River (I forget which). We dropped our bags in the room and headed out to get something to eat. So many choices! We had falahfels (sp?) and walked along Amsterdam Ave looking at shops until it was time to head back to the park for the show. We ended the long day in Central Park watching "Two Gentlemen of Verona" in the outside theater as the sun set over NYC. After the show, on the way back to the hotel we stopped for coffee and a shared piece of strawberry cake. Meanwhile, my children were waiting on that horrible, horrible storm. I am a bad,bad mother.

After we got back to the room, I ended my night as I would end each night of our stay....calling the kids and watching the news while nursing my poor blistered feet.

Monday, September 05, 2005

Katrina

I don't know if I've mentioned that I'm from south Louisiana, but I am. J and I were in NYC while Katrina wreaked her havoc. We just got home last night. I'm at a loss for words to express my thoughts at the moment. I'm outraged, furious, bewildered at the actions of a few animals in New Orleans, and non-actions of a few animals in the state and federal government. So, while I gather my thoughts and the energy to express them, I'm going to escape into 'I've been tagged' land. Then..I'll finish cleaning out the last frickin' freezer.


10 years ago I was: Older than you guys who have already answered. :) And....I was living in an RV traveling from city to city for my husband's job while homeschooling my youngest son.

5 years ago I was: STILL older than you guys. Sigh! And....still living in an RV traveling from.... Can you say..in a rut?

1 year ago I was: Enjoying having my last child settled in college, a husband working close enough to home that I could actually STAY at home and finish up all the painting and such that had been neglected while we were traveling. Our community was also experiencing a hunt for two (yes, two) serial killers. Two were captured and now we know that there is a third somewhere out there.

Yesterday: I was attempting to make my way home to unbelievable sadness. From Meridian, MS to Baton Rouge we found spotty power and spotty gas. Driving down the interstate nothing but destruction. As sad as I was, I also felt so very blessed to be able to see and hold my children, have a roof over my head, a warm shower, and a soft bed. To have a home.

5 snacks I enjoy: Krispy Kreme Donuts, Tootsi Roll Pops, Hershey's Kisses, biayls (sp?) (I discovered these in NY), basically anything chocolate

5 songs I know all the words to: Wow. I don't think I can name 5. Maybe hymns from waaaay back in my youth. Funny how things like that stick with you.

5 things I would do with 100 million dollars: 1.)Building up the retirement fund is a good one. 2.)Moving to NY sounds good, too. The Upper West Side?? That's where we stayed last week. Maybe my I'm setting my sites too low--make it the Upper EAST Side. Although I might not fit in there if it's too uppity. 3.) Pay off the kid's student loans. 4.) Set up trust funds for kids. 5.) Rebuild as much of New Orleans as possible.

5 places I would run away to: France, New York, Gulf Shores, Utah, New Zeland

5 things I would never wear: Bikini. Ruffles. Mini skirt. Turtle neck--because I'm ticklish. Sock with heels.

5 favorite tv shows: Without a Trace. CSI New York. Judging Amy. Everybody Loves Raymond. Hack.

5 bad habits: Procrastinating. (Is that spelled correctly?) Not speaking up. Doing things myself instead of delegating and becoming overwhelmed. Putting too much on my plate--food and tasks. Staying up into the wee hours and still trying to get up early and get things done.

5 biggest joys: 1-4 my children. Ability to hope

5 favorite toys: My laptop. My coffee pots. Books. Newspapers. My lamp Berger.

5 fictional characters I would date: Zorro. Adam from Bonanza. Jack from Without a Trace. Captain Kirk. Golly (??) from Monarch of the Glen.

5 people I tag to do this: Amanda, Tamra, Harmony, Margaret, Zack